Ladies, have you found your “Keeper”?
One of the hardest parts about navigating your way through the ups and downs of a relationship is wondering whether or not the relationship can go the distance. You love the happy times but you absolutely hate the bad times and you think to yourself if the good things can outweigh the bad. What are the things about your boyfriend that are worth fighting for? Fortunately for you there are simple signs that you can look out for to determine his worth in your life.
Read through this list and by the end, you’ll get a pretty good idea if whether or not your boyfriend is for keeps. These are 11 things your boyfriend does which make him a keeper:
1. He Makes an Effort to Text You
They don’t have to be complicated text messages really. Even a text as simple as letting you know where he is or who he’s out with can go a long way. It means he likes to keep you updated on his life and wants to always keep you in the loop.
2. He’s Wise With His Finances
Ladies, you never want to date a loser who is irresponsible with how he handles his money. Find a guy who knows how to manage his finances and is always forward-thinking when it comes to money. Find a man who puts his money in good investment ventures as opposed to boys who just like to buy toys all the time.
3. He Makes an Effort to Look Good
He doesn’t have to always be in a tuxedo, nor does he have to have his hair done every day. It’s just important that he still makes an effort to look presentable especially when he’s going to be seen in public with you. It means he still values how you see him and he still likes to look worthy enough to be with you.
4. He Tries His Best to Satisfy You in Bed
When he’s constantly trying to make an effort to make you climax in the sheets, then that means he’s not selfish. It means that he also wants to bring just as much pleasure to you as you do to him. It also means he’s adventurous and willing to try new things with you.
5. He Makes an Effort to Be Liked By Your Friends and Family
He understands that your friends and family are important to you, and so he considers them as important aspects of his life as well. He wants them to like him and know that he’s worthy of having you as a girlfriend. He basically treats your friends and family like he would his own.
6. He Tries His Best to Keep Healthy
It’s good when he’s health-conscious and fit. It means he’s mature enough to understand that fitness is an important aspect of life. He also understands the value of life and that the body is a temple that needs to be respected.
7. He Makes an Effort to Plan Dates
It’s not just always dinner and a movie with him. A man should always be willing to be spontaneous and vivacious when it comes to being with you. He likes to plan your dates and adventures together meticulously because he values any memories he can possibly share with you. Just know that anytime you’re with him is a great memory in itself.В – Continue reading on the next page
8. He Still Flirts With You Often
He likes to keep things interesting with you and so he makes an effort to have you fall in love with him more and more every single day. He values your love and affection and he can get really flirtatious even long into the relationship.
9. He Tries His Best to Make you Happy
You are his world and your happiness is also essentially his happiness. He likes to make you happy because seeing you happy can brighten up his day. Your joy and well-being is always his priority. If you want to be happy for the rest of your life, then you’d better find a man who can make you happy.
10. He Knows How to Look After Himself
Girls, you don’t want to get with a man who needs to constantly be cared for. Find a man who can care for you; a man who can cook, can clean up after himself, can perform mechanical work, and can get a good job. Sure, you’re a perfectly independent woman, but it’s nice to be with an independent man too.
11. He’s Willing to Compromise
Find a man who’s willing to make some big and small compromises every now and then. If you find a man who is willing to compromise and give in to your personal preferences, it’s an indication of his generosity and his selflessness. It also means that he is capable of putting you above his own desires.
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Ladies, have you found your Keeper? Let me know in the comments below!