Love is not always about rainbows and butterflies. Sometimes, no matter what we do, we don’t always end up to the person we love.
We listed down 7 common reasons why certain relationships fail:
This is easily one of the reasons why relationships fail. When no one wants to be the bigger person, it will eventually create chaos in the relationship. When you both do the “blame game” then you will actually end up losing each other. Take accountability of your actions as full grown individuals.
2. No time for each other.
When you start to neglect each other’s existence, that is when your relationship will start to fail. No one is truly busy if you are a priority. The truth is, according to Science, distance indeed makes the heart go fonder. The more that you do not see each other from time to time, the more that intimacy in your relationship starts to die.
3. You find out that he or she is a totally different person.
You have slowly noticed the changes in his or her attitude as days, months and even years passed by. He or she turns out to be not the same person that you fall in love with. He or she has become so different in a way that you can no longer connect with each other. The sparks are simply not there anymore. Bottom line is, before engaging in a relationship, you have to know the person very well first.
4. You are not just meant for each other.
No matter how much you want to hold on to that person, no matter how hard you try, sometimes that person is simply not just meant for you. You can exhaust all that you have, but still, they will not stay with you. You can be the best version of yourself, but that would still not be enough for them to choose you.
When your partner cheats on you, do not force them to choose you. Let them go because you deserve someone better. You deserve someone who does not make you feel less. If they cheat on you, it is their loss after all.
6. Still in love with his or her ex.
Never use someone in order for you to move on. Do not use someone as a rebound just for you to forget the pain temporarily. It will not give you any good because you are actually hurting an innocent soul. Love again when you’re ready.
7. No respect for each other.
When respect is no longer there, feel free to leave. You would rather be single than be with someone who constantly makes you feel weak and worthless. You do not deserve someone who constantly breaks your heart.
Love is one of the most amazing feelings in the world, but you have to accept the fact as well that not everyone stays. Some people are there to just teach you life lessons. What is important is that you do not stop loving.
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